Level Pegging

I am by no means vanilla, but recently a fair few men have asked me something, something which I knew about but just never appealed to me. They have asked me to fuck them with a strap-on, commonly known as “pegging“. Vix the OEN, who I’m an avid reader of, would love to do this to guys and never gets the offers. For me it’s been the other way round.

But the idea has grown on me and I’m not sure why. It’s not the whole anal aspect that I found unattractive, if a guy wants me to play a little down there with fingers then fine, and my previous attitude to pegging is, I’d do it, but only if they really wanted me to, and not to get me off but for their pleasure.

But the amount of men that have asked me to do it got me thinking about it more and why and why not I would want to do it. I have no wish to dominate a man by fucking him, instead of him fucking me, the very act of them being the one who inserts themselves makes them the dominant. For me it’s not about wanting to bend him over and show him who’s boss. I’m a switch, I like to be submissive and dominant, but I want to dominate men as a woman being a woman, not a woman imitating a man. If I’m going to show you who’s boss I’ll do it on my terms and with what G-d gave me.

So why does it appeal to me now when it didn’t before?

Partially it is my partners pleasure, I want to please them and unless it’s on my “no list”*, why not? Also I would like to experience what men feel, only to a certain extent as they have yet to make strap-ons which you can feel with, but I’d like to feel what I can. Another reason is I will get pleasure from it thanks to LoveHoney and products like this** or this.  Also I’ve never done it before, I’d just like to try something new. Mainly I think it’s the sheer amount of men who’ve asked, not peer pressure or any such thing, but just realising how pleasurable this is for them and giving someone else pleasure pleases me. Whatever changed my mind, something did and I now very much look forward to teting out my new toy on men and women.

I suppose the main jist of this post isn’t about my sexuality or pegging, it’s about keeping an open mind to whatever your partner or prospective partners suggest, even if your first thought is “ewwwww” (like mine was) you never know think about it and the idea may grow on you. Having said that if you are uncomfortable then don’t do something, it is your choice what you do in the bedroom (or wherever you’re doing it) so feel comfortable saying no. And if you don’t you’re with the wrong person.

*Which currently consists of kids, animals, anything that is flushed. No doubt there is more, but that’s all I can/want to think of off the top of my head.

** I was brought on of these for Chrismuzaeid.

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2 Responses to “Level Pegging”

  1. jade Says:

    heh i read more and more of your blog and the more i read the more i thnk your great and i can relate to you, i love your attatude in this post, its so matter of fact, a way i am also when it comes to sex.

    like you i want to please and do anything my man wants, and i know alot of men enjoy having there asses played with but my BF just dosnt want to do it, i think sometimes maybe hes scared it will come across as gay other times i just dont know why, maybe he is self conceous.

    he does alot of paying with my ass, in fact he loves doing it because its tighter and just naughty.
    but i think if i did it once hed like it.

    men are so complicated sometimes.

    sorry if that was too excplicit :S

  2. tHornyMinx Says:

    Glad you enjoy it, yeah I know some guys who won’t let you anywhere near there arse, others *love* it.

    Don’t worry anything goes, I try to keep my posts from being too explicit as this isn’t a sex blog, just a blog that sometimes talks about sex.

    Yeah I was talking to a male friend and he said anal play made you gay, I was like well women enjoy anal play and men like it even more that’s the science of it, they have prostate glands that are fun to stimulate, that’s medical fact. He just wasn’t having any of it. Indeed Men are complicated.


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